I cannot choose the correct com port in ActiveSync connections.

I have a Lg Incite and i am trying to ActiveSync via Bluetooth. I have
already connected to the computer and set up a virtual COM port but when I
try to select this COM port in activesync only COM1 and COM3 show up which I
think are serial COM ports. Can anyone help me to get activesync to list the
virtual COM ports? I have chosen the bluetooth option on both ActiveSync and
the LG Incite and have reinstalled activesync about 10 times but still no
luck.
Is there something that i'm missing?
I'm ususally pretty good with stuff like this and my LG has connected
sucessfully to both my car stereo and my bluetooth headset.