this Link solved My problem, thank you!!!! One thing that wasnt mentiond m
wich i wasnt sure on, was i some times could talk to whom ever it was i
added, id click on there email wich did show up on list, and at the top it
said thsi contact isnt on your list click here to add/himor her, wich i did
zillion of times, nothin happens, or the contact could see my display pic
and i couldnt see theres, but i could talk with them sometimes.. problem
solved tho with the link you provided there Jonathan, thanks again....

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any reson why that shows the thumb down instead of thumbs up???
"Jonathan Kay [MVP]" wrote:
> Greetings Nik,
>
> To correct this problem, shut down Messenger entirely by right-clicking on its icon in the
> notification area and choosing Exit, then download and run this .reg file:
> http://messenger.jonathankay.com/dow...lmpolicies.reg
>
> Then try signing in again. It make take 40-50 seconds after signing in before you see any
> change.
>
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> Associate Expert
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> "Nik" <> wrote in message
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> >I have added several contacts to windows live messenger and they are not
> > appearing in any form in my contacts list, other than with e-mails. They are
> > not prompting the other party to add me as a contact either. The strange part
> > is, that when they add me i dont get the option to add them either. Yet if i
> > sign into webmessenger i can approve all the adds and i can talk to the
> > contacts.
> >
> > Does anyone have any ideas what the solution to this might be? I have tried
> > uninstalling and re-installing windows live messenger to no success.
> > --
> > Nik
>
>