Deleting email from mobile device

When I delete an email from my mobile device it deletes it from my inbox on
my PC. I know that this is the way activeSync (I have my mail server setup
through activeSync) works, but I was wondering if there was a reliable 3rd
party software were if you delete an email from your mobile device it will
NOT delete it from my inbox on my PC.

I came from a blackberry and when you deleted an email from it it would
prompt you if you wanted to delete it from this device or everywhere. I
liked this option.

Thanks in advance to everyone.