Perhaps this might help...
It adds an option to delete on boot in the right click..
so go to your wifes account install this and try right clicking and select
to delete on boot and restart..
http://www.snapfiles.com/get/moveonboot.html
I have used this many times on XP..
I have not tried it on Vista though
Tell me if it works
"brianhare" <> wrote in message
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> Tiberius,i just tried,and when in safe mode on my account all the desktop
> icons just flash on and off all the time,it will not let me do
> anything..If i
> go to my wifes account then i can get all the way to see the file under
> my
> computer but if i try to click on it to delete it an error comes up and
> the
> my computer page shuts dsown and i`m left with her start up screen with
> icons again....i appreciate the quick reply,,,any ideas ?????
> --
> Brian Hare
>
>
> "Tiberius" wrote:
>
>> try going into safe mode by pressing f8 before windows starts...
>>
>> then delete it
>>
>> tell me if this helps
>>
>>
>> "brianhare" <> wrote in message
>> news:89028F6D-A7C9-42DC-B3D6-...
>> >I downloaded a file to my desktop now windows explorer keeps shutting
>> >down
>> > and restarting,can someone tell me how to remove it,it`s a Nef file
>> > from a
>> > preproduction camera and windows does not recognize it.All i get from
>> > my
>> > user
>> > account on vista is windows explorer shuttind down and restarting
>> > repetedly.I
>> > can log on to my wifes account on Vista but can`t do anything on my
>> > side.I
>> > tried to delete it from my wifes account on vista premium by going to
>> > my
>> > computer-users-brian-desktop but as soon as i right click the file to
>> > delete
>> > it windows explorer shuts down and restarts there to...any help would
>> > be
>> > appreciated
>> > --
>> > Brian Hare
>>
>>
>>