So I got the os loaded and put the 2nd card back in and no go

so I called tech support for the video cards and they walked me through updating the bios (hadn't done it before cause well just the thought of messing with a bios update scared me and 2 i read all the bios update stuff when 'no hard disk found' was my problem and non of the updates dealt with that issue.) So if you having the same problem and trying to run sli you have to update the bios. the pc is running great now.. Hope my problems help relieve someone else's headache.