never been able to get that to work either (xp>vista) so I use when friends
need help:
http://www.teamviewer.com/index.aspx
It is a tad slow but its free and can do what is needed
Bill
"ColdnFrosty" <> wrote in message
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> I am running Vista with Norton 360. My daughter is running XP with Norton
> 360. We are both in the same area but not on the same local network.
>
> When she requests remote assistance from me, I accept, but no connection
> can be made. However, when I request remote assistance from her and she
> accepts, the connection works. Any thoughts on how we get get her request
> to work? Both 360 configurations are the same. Not using Windows Firewall.
>
> Thanks.