Wow. That's a bit personal.
Look to see what you put in that task bar. There is something active
there, needing your attention.If you added something new remove it and
see if the flashing stops. Perhaps it was put in by HP (Demo program
etc..) You can alter the settings in the task bar by right clicking in
the bar and choosing
Properties. Click the advance button for a complete list.
Here is a more comprehensive description of the function, and how to
help.
'Taskbar' (
http://msdn2.microsoft.com/en-us/library/aa511446.aspx)
As for the icons. Have you tried right clicking the desktop and using
the sort by or view options.
You may also need to look at the "personlize" options particularly
"Windows color and appearance"/Advanced settings
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uhaligani