have I been removed?

Discussion in 'Windows MSN Messenger' started by so and so, May 17, 2005.

  1. so and so

    so and so Guest

    Is there a way to tell if someone has removed you from
    their list of contacts?
     
    so and so, May 17, 2005
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  2. Greetings,

    Yes there is. Simply click the Tools menu, then Options, then Privacy category (or tab if
    you're using an older version of Messenger), find the contact on either the allow or block
    list and right-click them-- if the "Delete" option is grayed out than you're still on their
    contact list, if the option is not grayed out and available, then they've removed you.

    All posts unless otherwise specified are (c) 2005 Jonathan Kay.
    You *must* contact me for redistribution rights.
     
    Jonathan Kay [MVP], May 17, 2005
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  3. so and so

    so and so Guest

    Ok - I looked in the tools and in option; right clicked
    and delete was not in bold but when messenger opens up and
    I see the names of my contact and right click there, the
    delete option is bolded. So what does that mean??? Not
    bolded in options but bolded on main opening page.
    then Privacy category (or tab if
    contact on either the allow or block
    grayed out than you're still on their
    available, then they've removed you.
     
    so and so, May 19, 2005
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  4. Hi,

    You will -always- be allowed to remove a contact from your main list, this will not change if
    the contact removes you or not.

    What I'm referring to is finding the contact by clicking the Tools menu, then Options, then
    Privacy category, right-clicking on them in that dialog (where the Allow and Blocked lists
    are kept).

    We're not looking for bold options, we are looking for either an available "normal" Delete
    option or an unavailable "grayed" Delete option. If it's grayed out then the person -hasn't-
    removed you and if the option is available, then they have.

    All posts unless otherwise specified are (c) 2005 Jonathan Kay.
    You *must* contact me for redistribution rights.
     
    Jonathan Kay [MVP], May 19, 2005
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